Flipping the Lens: 3 Things I Learned Getting My Own Headshots Done

Alright, confession time. Even us photographers need a refresh now and then! With the new Headshot Toby website going live, it was my turn to step in front of the camera.

I headed down to see my good friend Nicholas Dawkes Photography to see his new studio in Maidenhead. Now, thanks to my theatre background, I’m usually pretty comfortable in front of the camera, but being the client instead of the photographer? It’s always a bit of an eye-opener!

Nick was fantastic, the studio’s awesome (check out the video below), and we had a real laugh getting the shots. But beyond the fun, it really hammered home a few things I preach to my own clients. Sometimes you need to experience it yourself, right?

So, here are my top 3 takeaways from being the subject:

1. Knowing Your 'Why' Makes a World of Difference: We kicked off knowing exactly what the photos needed to do – capture the energy for the new website and create an authentic introduction to me. Having that clear goal beforehand meant we weren’t just taking snaps, we had a strong idea of how we would visually achieve this. I even had the opportunity to brainstorm with Number 75 Design, who were tasked with my new website build and rebrand building a mood board that Nic could use as references during the photoshoot. It reminded me how vital those initial conversations are to make sure your photos truly get your message right.

2. Feeling Comfortable is Everything: It sounds obvious, but experiencing it again was key. I've know Nic a long time, he's been a huge support and mentor to me as a photographer and he created such a relaxed vibe, which instantly makes you feel more like yourself. It’s not about stiff poses, it’s about connection and letting your personality shine through. It reinforced why making my own studio a welcoming, easy-going space is non-negotiable. No awkwardness allowed!

3. Your Photos Speak Volumes Before You Do: This really hit home. Your headshot, your brand photos - they’re often the first time someone meets you. You have total control over that first impression. Seeing my own images come together was a reminder that investing in visuals that truly represent you isn't vanity. Sure it can feel that way, and we put pressure on ourselves, but really the photos aren't for us, they are for our audinece. The people we want to meet, connect with and work with.

   
   

It was a brilliant reminder of the whole process from the other side. Massive thanks again to Nick for nailing the brief!

So, how’s your first impression looking? Maybe it’s time to think about the message you want your photos to tell.

Here's a summary of my day in the studio!